Do you know what you do as a tornado destroys everything in its path 60 miles from you? You pray. That's about all you can do. Because 60 miles away means the skies in Stillwater are clear, even sunny. The horizon is quiet. A few rain storms and dark clouds came through and I watched the weather report carefully, but my town was in the clear. My home stayed put. My family stayed safe. My car remained untouched and my roads home were clear. But 60 miles away was a very different story.
I have lived in Oklahoma since July of 2006, so I have now experienced 6 tornado seasons. Each with their own warnings, passing storms and damage. I have run for cover when the sirens have gone off in Stillwater. I have hid in my closet several times waiting for the storm to pass. I have packed emergency kits, and worried about stock piling supplies. I have called my mom many times to express concern over the looming storms approaching. Two years ago around this time we had a small tornado in my own yard, thankfully only damaging several trees including a 40 ft tree that was torn up by it's roots and laid down along side my home. I was 20 weeks pregnant at the time and terrified. I remember crying in the closet because my swollen feet wouldn't fit into my shoes. But the damage was minimal, life carried on. Branches were quickly cleaned up, stumps were removed and all evidence of our close call disappeared. I mostly forgot how quickly things can change, how fast it can go very, very bad and how small you really are in the eye of a tornado.
|Picture taken at our home in May 2011 of tree pulled up by tornado.|
But then yesterday happened. And something changed for me. Perhaps it was the fact that I am a mommy now. Perhaps it was the massive damage and dozens of lives lost. Maybe it was the children who were killed in their elementary school. It could have been the heartbreaking news coverage of loss. It suddenly felt like 60 miles away was nothing at all. That could have been my daughter swept away from her school. That could have been my home reduced to wood pieces and trash. That could have been my family searching desperately for each other. My invincibility is now gone. My fear of facing a tornado is real. I no longer feel like this couldn't happen to me. Because 60 short miles away it did happen. I will never be able to dismiss another tornado watch. I will never be able to leave Reagan at her school while we ride out a storm. I will never be able to walk away from a weather report with dangerous predictions without worry and fear. Even today people reminded me, Stillwater has only had one death due to a tornado. I don't care, 60 miles away that isn't the case. I am now afraid, for myself and for those already effected. Tornado season hasn't passed us yet, and even when it does May comes around each year with all new dangers. I now feel very, very tiny in the eyes of mother nature. I am now very aware how horribly dangerous this time of year is my state. It could happen to me. It did happen here. And it could happen again.
|Picture taken in the debris in Moore, OK on May 20, 2013|
The oddest part of this is that my life pretty much continues on as normal. I did laundry last night, packed my lunch, showered and went off to work this morning. But 60 miles away people are digging through debris hoping to find a survivor. I sit in air conditioning and type while others stand in line for food and water. My life remains almost unchanged while others lost everything. The only difference was the path of the tornado, the only thing that separates my regular life and life threatening situation was 60 miles.
Do you know what you do the day after an F5 tornado destroys everything 60 miles from you? You make a plan to help. Please consider helping me purchase supplies to send to Moore, OK. I am collecting donations Tuesday and Wednesday to purchase baby supplies including diapers, wipes, bottles, formula, baby food, blankets, and other items.
Please use PayPal ( https://www.paypal.com/webapps/mpp/send-money-online ) to send me instant money. There are NO FEES if you use your bank account or PayPal balance. This is also a secure way to send money, without sharing your banking information.
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I will personally be purchasing and loading the items, so this isn't just cash I am handing off, it will be used properly and is very needed! Every bit helps, even $5, $10 or $20! My group, Badge Wives, will be transporting the items so this will directly reach the area.
When you lose your invincibility but keep everything else, you find ways to give to those who lost so much more. Kiss the ones you love, and take tornado reports seriously. Pray for those effected and God bless Oklahoma.